This may be the most difficult part of cleaning out your loved one’s house. Many people take weeks or months to feel ready to take on this challenge. The most important thing is to remain organised; this is where professional assistance will help.
Sort the piles into categories. Colour-coded stickers may be used to label items:
- Items to keep
- Items to donate
- Items to recycle
- Items to sell
- Items to get appraised by a professional
- Items to throw away
Rather than trying to clean the entire house in one sitting, we suggest working your way through it room by room. Start with areas that aren’t emotionally charged, such as the garage, pantry, or laundry, if you’re feeling emotionally raw. This will assist you in establishing a routine for determining which non-sentimental things belong there.
Allow yourself time to grieve and experience your emotions as you uncover more sentimental things. If you are undecided on whether or not to keep something, keep only a piece of it and not the entire collection. This helps you to retain things that bring back fond memories of your loved one without adding to the home items you do not need.
Resist the temptation to keep things only because you have to. It is best to donate, sell, or discard anything if you can’t find a practical use for it and it has no sentimental value for you. Try offering family and friends presents of your loved one’s treasures if you think they’ll enjoy it.
Finally, if you have valuable art, antiques, jewellery, or other items in your home, it’s a good idea to have them professionally appraised.